Friday, November 16, 2007

I'm holding my book right now!

Today started like it would be a regular ol' day on the home-front. After Ernesto got Emma-Joy and himself readied and out the door for his work and her school, Maya-Rae and I dropped the car off at our neighborhood guy's fix-it shop, cruised by the produce stand on our walk home and biked to our Friday morning playgroup. Back at home, she napped while I prepped the most amazing bean, brown rice and kale green chili enchiladas for dinner. Later, we picked up Emma-Joy from school, played with Sasha the dog in the back yard and raked leaves, walked to pick the car up and went to get Emma-Joy a much-needed haircut.

It was on the walk back to the car fix-it shop when I spotted a UPS truck turning down my street. Had we not been already late to pick the car up, I would have doubled back to see if the truck was going to stop at our house.

Back at home, the box sitting on the chair next to the front door is the first thing my eyes gravitated towards. From the driveway, peering out my driver-side window, I strained my eyes through their thick-lensed glasses enough to make out that the shipping label read AK Press.

Dancing in my seat on my still seat-belted ass to no music, I squealed to Emma-Joy that my book was finally here! "So what," she said. "So what??? I worked so hard writing it and it's a dream come true to finally see it!" I told her, my spastic ass still doing a stationary dance. "Well then, go get it and I'll get Maya-Rae," she suggested.

Prior to seeing the box of books waiting for me, I actually wasn't sure what my feelings would be. I thought it might be anticlimactic, giving it a blank stare that meant "Now what? I'm holding the long-awaited book, but is anyone else?" I worried that I wouldn't like it after all, that I'd let myself down by not editing out that thing or including that other information.

But when I opened the box and saw my very own, first ever book staring back at me, it felt good. Very, very good! Pride, excitement, and disbelief took me over. As did several exclamations of "Oh shit! I really did it!" I knew I'd worked really hard and written something, handed in some manuscript to someone, but not until I saw it for the first time this evening did it become real.

To touch it, open its pages, check out the front pages I'd never seen before, as well as the back cover and the layout, was an ecstatic thrill. Emma-Joy grabbed the camera out of my purse and snapped a picture of me crouched on the floor over the newly opened box, book in one hand and Maya-Rae in the other, the biggest possible smile across my face. (I'll post it here as soon as I figure out how...) I called Ernesto at work, and then my mom. And I kicked myself for not being able to find my editor Ellen's phone number!

Forget actually cooking the enchiladas for dinner, the girls got lollipops and ramen noodles tonight (yes, in that order) as I just couldn't tear myself out of reading this chapter or part of that one, needing to convince myself that yeah, it really did turn out more than OK! No matter if others love it or hate it, it's my best effort.

So yeah, the book is out!!! And now, both girls are in bed and it's time to drink some wine tonight to celebrate!


Richie L. said...

Good job, Jess! I'm happy for you.

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Anonymous said...

I just got my copy today!!!

(I asked your publicist to send me a copy since she wants me to interview you for mamaphonic - which I am really siked to do - and want to read the whole book for real first (I read fast) )

ANYWAY - I got it and *I* feel so excited, first to see my blurb on the back, I"m so proud of that, my "first blurb" - then I'm looking at it front to back, flipping it around, writing down my first feelings so I can use them for review ect...

and its just really big and comprehensive and amazing. Like I knew it was going to be good - but its Better than good, you know.

and then I looked at it over eating soup, and I started to tear up. I was starting to cry, for real. Because its a real live book!!!! its very exciting.

interview questions coming your way very very soon, in a day or two at most.


p.s. - having a book, makes you happy, for a long long time. I mean, when I am down, I look at my book and I'm like "I have a book" and when I really feel bad like I won't ever do anything else, I think "well, at least there is the book". Its substantial. Now your life is changed forever. In someways it is nothing. but in other ways...its really important. its hard to explain. but that joy - its something you can hold onto - because you did it. you made a beautiful wonderful thing.

Jennifer Longdon said...

Found your blog while randomly surfing. Congratulations! It is such a rush to hold your own book in your hands. Almost like another child.

flminivanmama said...

Yay Jess that is awesome! Can't WAIT to see it :D


Anonymous said...

YEAH! Rock on jessica. can't wait to get my hands on a couple of those books!! congrats and much love to you and the family,

mark p.

laura said...

hi jessica,

i just found your blog because your book tipped me off to the anarchist parents listserv, and when i was browsing through the archives while waiting for actual new messages, i saw a post from you mentioning this blog.

anyway, i got possibly an early copy of your book because i think my sister is doing the publicity for it, so she gave me a copy. i loved it and got through it about as fast as my four month old and otherwise hectic life allowed me to, and now i'm checking out the extra resources. i'm looking forward to reading about your further adventures!


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